How to Turn a Woman On

Common knowledge may suggest that learning how to turn a woman on is more difficult than learning how to turn a man on. There are a few reasons behind this assumption.

One is the thought that men usually are more sexually driven, and therefore more straight-forward and easier to satisfy in bed.

The other reason for assuming that learning how to turn a woman on is more difficult is the fact that men and women, generally speaking, have different rhythms and different ways of approaching sex. Men find it hard to relate to these differences, and this leads them to believe that it is complicated to learn how to turn a woman on.

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With lots of individual variations, there is some truth to the above statements, and
some implications derived from them: 

1. Women generally like foreplay more than men do;  
2. Men are more ‘goal-driven’ when it comes to sex;  
3. Women take longer to get aroused than men; but, 
4. Once aroused, women can enjoy this state for long periods of time. 

And last but certainly not least,

   5.  For women more often than for men, sex is emotional as much as physical. 

In general, the above tendencies hold true. But please understand that we are all
different, and lots of times men need an emotional connection to enjoy a sexual
experience to the fullest. By the same token, many times women can be satisfied
with a purely physical sexual act. And similarly, many times a woman will need a
‘quickie’ without much foreplay and a man will want to play around before getting it on. 

But if you learn to adapt and combine these general tendencies into applicable actions,
then you can tailor them to fit the individual preferences of the woman you are intending
to turn on. You can then consider yourself well on your way to mastering the art of how
to turn a woman on. 

Let’s take foreplay as an example. 

Foreplay is stimulation that builds up sexual desire; but why limiting it to what happens
in the bedroom right before intercourse? 

While ‘stimulation’ for guys might mean little more than touching or kissing erogenous
zones shortly before penetration (again, goal oriented), for women ‘stimulation’ has a
broader meaning.  

• Women can be turned on and stimulated in ways other than sexually.  

Knowing this is key in learning how to turn a woman on. 

• Laugh. Physical activity. A romantic setting. A tinge of jealousy. A gesture
  of true love. A non-sexual massage.

These are examples of stimulation that can build up sexual desire in a woman, and
which goes beyond what we traditionally know as foreplay. Especially if you don't
make it evident that you have an ulterior motive!

If you combine the above ideas and add to them the emotional component, you’ll begin
to understand the art of how to turn a woman on. 

Did you ever notice how your woman may be turned on by you cleaning the kitchen, or

sweeping the floor, or vacuuming? 

These are not masculine or visually appealing activities per se; and yet, women find
these erotic. Why?  

• Because when you are cleaning the kitchen, you are telling her that you
  care, that you are willing to do something that you normally wouldn’t, just
  for her.  

This is sexy to a woman. This is the emotional element at work. This builds up her sexual
desire and will pay off big time in bed. 

We hope that with these tips we’ve been able to shed some light in the art of how to
turn a woman on.

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