The Magic of Making Up: How to Get an Ex Back 

Reviewer: Lisa M.
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Product Reviewed: The Magic of Making Up
In a Few Words: A Step by Step 'Love Map' to Get an Ex Back

I found The Magic of Making Up through a friend who had watched a couple of videos by the author, TW. Jackson (aka 'T-Dub'), and liked what he saw. I had just broken up with my boyfriend and was in dire need of relationship advice; specifically, advice on how to get an ex back or saving a relationship from a break-up.

My first impression of 'T-Dub' is that he's genuinely interested in helping others. Through his writing and the sound of his voice, you can tell that he is respectful and aware of your feelings, and that he is down-to-earth and warm.

But don't let his low-key personality fool you. T-Dub packs a punch in terms of the quality of his work and his keen knowledge of human behavior. He may say things you'd rather not hear, or suggest you do something you'd rather not do (like stop text-messaging your ex!); but he's basing his suggestions on his
experience helping people through break-ups.

The Magic of Making Up is a step-by-step 'love map' to get an ex back. T-Dub's
method and advice (he forewarns us early on), are sometimes counter-intuitive. But
when he explains why, it makes sense. And even better, when the method is applied,
it works!

In his guide, Mr. Jackson teaches among other things:

• How to be in the right frame of mind to get your ex back (panic does not work). 
• Assess where you are in the heart and mind of your ex.  
• Based on where you are, you will have a step by step proven method to achieve
  your goal.
  And just as important... 
• He will teach you what you need to do to maintain the relationship once you are
  back together.  

In my own case, I didn't have to follow the whole method, because, lo and behold, I made
up with my boyfriend shortly after applying what T-Dub calls the ''opening move". It's a
very simple thing to do, and yet, because of its counter-intuitive nature, the 'opening
move' can have an instant effect. In my case, it did!

Basically, the opening move consists in ''being in agreement with the break-up."
Yes. While everything in you says that if you agree with the break-up, you will lose your
partner for good, the effect is shockingly the opposite, or at least it was in my case.

One of the things I like about Mr. Jackson's approach, is that the changes you will be
making (in yourself and in your relationship), are real changes; these are not tricks to
get a reaction from your parnter. In my case, for example, I didn't tell my ex that I agreed
with the break-up until I felt that I did. I genuinely felt that at the point we were, a break-up
was the only solution, and I communicated this to him. I told him he was right, that a
break-up was exactly what we needed at that moment.

Men love being right don't they :)
All I can tell you is that agreeing with him (even if it was agreeing about a break-up)
instantly brought us closer together! We began a process of reconciliation based on
the understanding that we both needed to make changes.

From that point on I followed a few more of T-Dub's suggestions (so as not to ruin what
I had accomplished), and I didn't even need to implement all of the steps and techniques described in The Magic of Making Up. In any case, what I applied, worked; this 'love map'
to get an ex back did the trick and lived up to its name, The Magic of Making Up.

The preceding review conveys the author's personal expreience. Results vary.

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